Sometimes experiencing adversity creates the best mentors in the future. Laura Croutch remembers the deep sting of isolation and having to rely on herself from a young age as she navigated a challenging home environment. She lacked the family connections and emotional support many of us take for granted. Laura didn’t have what you would describe as a normal upbringing and made sacrifices to be a caretaker for her brother who has cerebral palsy. Despite these challenges, Laura’s resiliency and strong sense of independence flourished equipping her to become a phenomenal adult role model at Big Brothers Big Sisters of Calgary and Area (BBBS Calgary).
Laura spent years in lively classrooms working as an Education Assistant supporting students with exceptionalities. Despite the fulfilling work, she felt the constraints of the classroom were limiting her impact. Driven by a desire to do more, Laura transitioned into the financial industry, focusing on securing and investing funding for disabled individuals of all backgrounds to ensure their financial security. Around this time, she also discovered BBBS Calgary and felt an immediate pull to become the mentor she had once needed herself.
Laura is nearing the end of her second mentoring relationship with Theo, a bold and inventive 15-year-old, Laura sees a lot of herself in her mentee – they bonded quickly through their shared experiences at home, they love enjoying delicious foods, Laura supports Theo’s love of rugby, and connecting over art, specifically crocheting. Laura has been a constant presence in Theo’s life and helped her navigate personal relationships and encouraged Theo to put herself first as opposed to the needs of others; empowering her by being in her corner, and always rooting for her.
As the two developed their artistic passions together, Laura’s BBBS Calgary Mentoring Coordinator, Kennedy shared an opportunity with her to nominate Theo for a local art award. Laura describes how “she always wished someone else would put her forward for opportunities like this” as a child, so she became that person for others. Through Laura’s efforts of sharing Theo’s story, Theo won the art award and a $100 cash prize. Winning the award allowed Theo to embrace her artistic talents and pursue entrepreneurial opportunities.
Today, in her own words, Laura advises anyone considering mentorship: “Just do it. Worst case, it doesn’t work out. But you might change a life.”
